Thursday, November 3, 2011

IRRESPONSIBLE PARENTING or a SIMPLE DEAD BEAT?

TODAY: Children....our most precious gift. So why is it that they suffer the sins of their parents? When parents (the two people who actively engaged in conceiving the child/children) are presented with an inability to remain a unit, why are the children forced to suffer? Was the care and love of the child/children conditional? When leaving the relationship/marriage, do we also leave the child/children? How is it that you boast of being a responsible adult who is spiritually, morally and financially sound but fail to provide the emotional, mental and financial support of your child/children? Men and women equally have been guilty.

FAST FORWARD: You begin a new relationship/marriage, purchase a new home, new cars, start a new family and begin a beautiful new life. But what about the current LIFE/LIVES of the child/children that still exist? Is it responsible parenting to forget about the child/children to pursue your own happiness? You spend lavishly to ensure that the new family is comfortable while the existing child/children are not afforded the same lifestyle. Is this irresponsible parenting or does it simply categorize you as a dead beat?

QUESTION: As the new man/wife in the relationship; how do you foster a healthy connection to ensure the well-being of the child/children?

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